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When a subbie asked what he could do for me, I said: “Write me a blog.”  Here it is.  Let me know what you think.

Many of the Dommes here at LDW are asked by one caller or another when we first discovered the dominant side of our personality or when did our interests turn to S & M.  Some of the answers by my peers here at LDW range from interesting to fascinating and, like them, it wasn’t just one thing but several that happened to me over time.  Back when I was a psych major at a prestigious university back in Great Britain I had researched and submitted a thesis on the nature of dominance amongst the mammalian kingdom. Dominance is not something that is characteristic exclusive to males or females of any species.  No one can determine why one species differs from another in this regard but the hypothesis is that it all comes down to the fact that it is all part of the survival instinct brought on by certain circumstances beyond anyone or anything’s control.  Each species has it’s own strength that has determined how they will survive (or not) but, in the end, over thousands of years of evolution, homo sapiens have risen to the top of the hierarchy because of our capacity for intelligence.  Because our survival depended on both brawn and intelligence in our early development, the human male ruled as the dominant sex.  However more civilised we became it was still our intelligence that determined our survival and not so much the brawn. Women through out history have become the more dominant figure like Helen of Troy, Cleopatra, Delilah, Josephine all the way up to Madonna to name a few.  My thesis was acclaimed by my professors and my Psych sent a copy of it to one of his colleagues in NYC.  When the semester ended I was invited to the university in New York to speak about my thesis so I decided to vacation there and wound up staying for about three months before returning home.  I wound up staying because there was something that happened there in the Big Apple that gave me my first insight as to what I was born for.

To be continued/ …

What Do You Think?

What do you think of subbie’s fantasy about how I became a Domme?  Let me know and tell me if you want Part II!


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