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Yes, dear reader, some of my subbies actually want to be denied orgasm; sometimes for a considerable period of time. It’s something I’m often asked about, since there are as many opinions on the subject as there are panties in a sissy’s lingerie drawer!fullface_B&W

Long-Term Chastity

Briefly, I’m not generally in favour of long-term chastity, I don’t think it’s particularly healthy either physically or emotionally. On those occasions when I DO keep a man in long-term chastity, he’s regularly drained either by prostate milking or ruined orgasms to keep those juices flowing. Also I invariably encourage him to stroke each day, to edge or at least have an erection. “Doesn’t that only torment him more?” I hear you asking. Well, yes. And your point is…? The extra torment is really just an added bonus; the point is for him to stimulate his penis to erection each day. Really it is.

Chastity Devices

I’m also not keen on chastity devices, cock cages, etc. I think it’s a bit of a cop-out – after all, it’s easy to be chaste when you’re not physically able to attain an erection, it’s much more of a challenge to stay chaste by force of will and of course I’m only too happy to help you with THAT! Don’t get me wrong – I love to say “No” to a man, especially one that’s on his knees, resting his face in my lap, begging and pleading to be allowed release – but I want you to be denied because I say so, not because a cage keeps you safe from temptation.

An Alternative Suggestion

Let’s talk about an alternative then, shall we? I’ve become interested lately in male infibulation. Don’t panic!! I know the term has unfortunate implications, but I’m not talking about some horrific mutilation here. Pulling the foreskin over the head of the penis and fixing it there in some way is still infibulation. The manner of fixing can be something as simple as a piece of string or cord or something a little more radical such as a piercing that holds the foreskin in place. In fact, there was a time in the ancient world when tying the foreskin over the penis and then tying the cord around the thigh was a normal and acceptable way of keeping the penis safe and secure! There now, doesn’t that sound lovely?  There are erotic implications, of course,  associated with holding the foreskin in place with a little ring to which a long, delicate chain can be attached.  Can you imagine it?  I certainly can!

“But I don’t have a foreskin!”

I realise that many of you reading this will, for a variety of reasons, have no foreskin. Never mind, we can make foreskin restoration part of our phone sex session!  Yay!  Attaching weights of ever-increasing size can, allegedly, stretch what’s left of your foreskin and restore it – at least to some extent. There are other methods of course, but this seems the simplest and the most pleasurable. To me that is. And you DO want to please me. Don’t you?  And this way, even though you’ll never get to fuck me, your penis can still bring me pleasure…

If you’d like to explore some aspect of femdom, then call me or, if you’d like to get to know me a little first, join me for my radio show The Magic Bus, on Sundays at 9pm EST in the Cock Radio Room at www.communitykink.com and listen at www.cockradio.com.

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