Why not? I’m not really into making new year’s resolutions; in so many cases you’re just setting yourself up for failure, resulting in the negative feelings that go along with that. I’m much more in favour of new day resolutions, starting every day with fresh resolve to achieve the things you want to achieve.fullface_B&W

New Kinks

Having said all that, I AM into trying new kinks, indulging in a few new fantasies, and what better time to do that than the beginning of January when most of us (in the northern hemisphere anyway) could do with a bit of cheering up? Some subbies get a bit nervous at the thought of trying out new things, but it doesn’t have to be scary. You don’t have to take massive leaps into unknown territory, you can just take small, manageable steps. For instance, if you’re even slightly interested in dressing en femme, then why not start with a pair of panties and a touch of tinted lip gloss? No huge commitment there. If you like what you see (and FEEL) then you can explore further. Try masturbating while you’re wearing the new panties (don’t worry, they’re VERY washable) and lip gloss and see if they enhance the experience. I’m confident you’ll be left panting for MORE! Of course a call to your favourite phone sex Mistress will also enhance the experience, but what about calling a Mistress you’ve never called before? If you’re concerned that your experience may not be all you hoped, then just remember Ms Ally’s famous guarantee and worry no more! Remember you can also make a first-time call to a Mistress on her feature day and get ten minutes of free conversation with her. Look out for who’s on when at our Cock Control site.

What New Things Would You Like to Try?

Spend a little time over the next few days thinking about what new things you’d like to try. I find it helps if you have your cock in your hand while you’re doing this (it’s amazing just how inspiring a nice hard cock can be) and I’ll be back with Part II of this blog with a few suggestions of my own!

If you’d like to explore some aspect of femdom, then call me or, if you’d like to get to know me a little first, join me for my radio show The Magic Bus, on Sundays at 9pm EST in the Cock Radio Room at and listen at

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