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The Conversation About Safe Words

I hadn’t intended to write any more about safe words, but it seems like my first two posts generated quite a discussion.  Mistresses and callers have weighed in with their opinions and experiences around the use (or non-use) of safe words.

Why Not Use Safe Words?

Ms. Olivia mentioned in a comment she . . . → Read More: The Conversation About Safe Words

Safe Words

I’ve talked about safe words before so you probably know that I’m all in favour of them when it comes to D/s sessions (and even some rather more vanilla ones).

Disturbing

I was talking to a submissive today about safe words and what he told me was rather disturbing.  We were talking about caning . . . → Read More: Safe Words

Submission Requires Strength (Still)

It doesn’t matter what kind of sub you are, or aspire to be, as already discussed it takes real strength to admit and then to live as a submissive to a Mistress.

Respect is Key!

Another common misconception when discussing the subject of a submissive male and his Mistress (or any other D/s relationship . . . → Read More: Submission Requires Strength (Still)

Submission Takes Strength

Contrary to what’s believed by many in the vanilla community, submission – especially when you’re a man – takes real strength.  You’ll sometimes hear people opine that submissive males must be weak, sissies even.  Neither of those statements is true.  Yes, of course, many sissies are submissive but that doesn’t mean all submissive . . . → Read More: Submission Takes Strength

Safe, Sane and Consensual

Phone sex might just be the safest sex of all.  No matter what your fantasy or fetish, no matter how strict the Mistress, how submissive the caller, the caller is ultimately in control, just as in a “real life” scenario the Mistress and the sub decide what is, and what is not, permissible.

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