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“Oh Lord, Please Don’t Let Me Be Misunderstood…”

I was a little taken aback the other day when I received an e-mail from a potential caller who was concerned about being humiliated.  She’s a cross-dresser and was worried that if she called me I’d humiliate her because of that!  Obviously, in spite of all the blogs I’ve written, I’ve failed to make myself clear, so I’ll try to rectify that now.

  • I enjoy humiliating a submissive.
  • I only enjoy humiliating a submissive who has positively indicated that this is what he wants.
  • Different people find different things to be humiliating  For instance, small penis humiliation (sph) is common, but not all men feel that (a) it’s a problem, or (b) they want to be humiliated because of it.
  • The pleasure I get from being a Domme is the reaction and response of my subbies.  Hurting someone beyond the boundaries of the scene gives me no pleasure.  There’s a fine line between dominance and abuse. It’s fine, but it’s there.*
  • Dominance and submission is a game, or a dance if you like, and when it’s no longer fun, it’s time to stop.
  • Good communication with your Mistress is crucial if you’re to get what you want out of the relationship.

I hope I was able to reassure the caller I’m talking about, but this is a good example of why it’s recommended you e-mail a Mistress before calling for the first time.  In my case, you can also chat with me on tumblr.com to let me know what you’re looking for.

I’d like to think I offer dominance tempered with compassion.  If you’re not sure what that means, feel free to contact me here at my blog, by e-mail at catherine@enchantrixempire.com or through www.enchantrixempire.com.  Or, if you’re feeling brave, simply pick up the phone.

*More on the subject in next week’s blog.

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If you’d like to explore this, or some other aspect of femdom, then just call me or, if you’d like to get to know me a little better first, join me for my hosted chat, The Magic Bus, on Mondays at 8pm EST in our interactive chat room at and listen to me at my live YouTube channel. YOU MUST B18+ TO PARTICIPATE.

EMPRESS CATHERINE: 800-601-6975
Skype ID: CatherineSpanks

For an erotic phone session with Empress Catherine, call 800-601-6975. (Must be 18+. Calls are $2.75 per minute, with a 10-minute minimum. Discreetly billed to your credit card.) http://ratemycall.com

How Kinky Do You Have To Be To Call?

I’m sure none of you would be surprised to hear that some callers are afraid they might shock me with their kinks, fantasies and downright dirty thoughts and ideas.  (For the record, I don’t think I’ve been shocked yet.)  However, you may be interested to know that some callers, far from being concerned that they’re “too kinky” are afraid they may not be “kinky enough”!

Never Fear – You’re Kinky Enough!

Hopefully I manage to allay those fears.  For a start, one man’s kink is another man’s vanilla – it’s all relative.  Also, I like hearing about your kinks, whatever they are.  You don’t have to shock or even impress me; I’ll still be interested and I’ll still be listening.

Should I Do It?

Sometimes I’m asked whether I think a caller should make his fantasy a reality.  I’ll always give you an honest answer about that, for instance in many cases I’ll advise against making cuckold fantasies real and give you my reasons why.  Cock control, on the other hand, almost always seems like a good idea!  Perhaps I’m just biased – what do you think?

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If you’d like to explore this, or some other aspect of femdom, then just call me or, if you’d like to get to know me a little better first, join me for my hosted chat, The Magic Bus, on Mondays at 8pm EST in our interactive chat room at and listen to me at my live YouTube channel. YOU MUST B18+ TO PARTICIPATE.

EMPRESS CATHERINE: 800-601-6975
Skype ID: CatherineSpanks

For an erotic phone session with Empress Catherine, call 800-601-6975. (Must be 18+. Calls are $2.75 per minute, with a 10-minute minimum. Discreetly billed to your credit card.) http://ratemycall.com

Don’t Be Shy

As is so often the case, this post is inspired by a caller, or rather a potential caller.  Of course I get lots of enquiries from people; some of them go on to call me and some do not.  I should say at this point that sometimes it takes them months to finally take the plunge and pick up the phone!

Too Shy

Some guys, like the one I’m thinking of, are simply too shy to take that final step and call me.  Does that sound silly?  It shouldn’t.  Remember that some of these guys have been repressing their real feelings, sometimes their real selves, for years.  It’s not easy to break down those barriers and talk about their fantasies and secret desires.  Think about it this way, how many people can you talk to openly about (for instance) your desire for orgasm control?

Safe Sex

As I like to say, phone sex is the ultimate in safe sex although I hasten to add that many of my calls are most definitely not what most people think of when they think of phone sex.  However, what they all have in common is that anything you tell me is kept in the strictest confidence.  Yes, even though I might playfully tease you about telling your boss you’re wearing panties under your corporate suit, in fact that will never happen.

All I’m saying is, if you’re dithering about, if you’re undecided whether to call or not, just take a deep breath, close your eyes and make the call.  You can do that, can’t you?

 

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If you’d like to explore this, or some other aspect of femdom, then just call me or, if you’d like to get to know me a little better first, join me for my hosted chat, The Magic Bus, on Mondays at 8pm EST in our interactive chat room at and listen to me at my live YouTube channel. YOU MUST B18+ TO PARTICIPATE.

EMPRESS CATHERINE: 800-601-6975
Skype ID: CatherineSpanks

For an erotic phone session with Empress Catherine, call 800-601-6975. (Must be 18+. Calls are $2.75 per minute, with a 10-minute minimum. Discreetly billed to your credit card.) http://ratemycall.com

“You Really Enjoy This, Don’t You?”

It’s usually said with an expression of surprise.  I’m not often asked the question “Do you like doing what you do?” but sometimes a caller will express surprise that I very obviously DO enjoy it.

It shouldn’t really be a surprise.  Think of it this way, I’m a naturally dominant woman who enjoys all kinds of men and I have very catholic tastes when it comes to sex.

Trust

Callers come to me for more than just phone sex, more than just “getting off” (although of course some do).  They trust me with their secrets, confess their hidden desires and often, particularly in the case of sissies, call me entirely in their preferred persona.  How can I not be touched, flattered even, by their trust?  How could I earn that trust if I didn’t enjoy what I do?

Express Your [real] Self

For many of my callers this is their only opportunity to express themselves whether they’re pain sluts, humiliation sluts or simply enjoy a little guided masturbation.  Can you imagine listening to those callers if you didn’t enjoy it?  Can you imagine offering advice, pain, humiliation, whatever it is they’re into if you didn’t really want to?  It would make for a pretty miserable existence and would most definitely make for a pretty poor call and we don’t do those around here!

IF YOU’D RATHER LISTEN THAN READ, JUST CLICK HERE…

If you’d like to explore this, or some other aspect of femdom, then just call me or, if you’d like to get to know me a little better first, join me for my hosted chat, The Magic Bus, on Mondays at 8pm EST in our interactive chat room at and listen to me at my live YouTube channel. YOU MUST B18+ TO PARTICIPATE.

EMPRESS CATHERINE: 800-601-6975
Skype ID: CatherineSpanks

For an erotic phone session with Empress Catherine, call 800-601-6975. (Must be 18+. Calls are $2.75 per minute, with a 10-minute minimum. Discreetly billed to your credit card.) http://ratemycall.com

The Joy of Submission Part II

My last post apparently struck a chord with a lot of people; especially with submissive males who basically said, “Yes – somebody gets it!”.  Because of that response, I thought I’d share more random thoughts on the subject.

Strong Sissies

A strong sissy?  Isn’t that a contradiction in terms?  Not at all!  It takes a strong man to be a sissy and if you don’t believe me, just try chatting to one for a while.  Many, many people in the world struggle to find their true identity, their true selves.  It could be said we spend our whole lives on that quest.  So what about when you’ve found that authentic self?  How much more difficult to freely express your true psyche?  Think about that the next time you dismiss a sissy, or any submissive male, as a weakling.

Dominant Women

Just as the submissive male might struggle, so might the dominant woman.  I can’t be the only one who wondered what was wrong with me during my teens and even into my early twenties.  I’m naturally dominant and surely people (especially men) wouldn’t like that?  I can’t tell you how happy I was to discover that not only do many men love dominant women, but they actively seek them out!  I discovered that I wasn’t “making” the men weak, I wasn’t emasculating them, they were naturally submissive in the same way that I was (am) naturally dominant.

When you decide to call me, and you will, whether you’re calling about cock control, feminisation or whether you’re a pain slut or a strap-on bitch, you can be sure you’re getting the authentic me and I’ll do my best to make sure you find, explore and live as the real you.

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If you’d like to explore this, or some other aspect of femdom, then just call me or, if you’d like to get to know me a little better first, join me for my hosted chat, The Magic Bus, on Mondays at 8pm EST in our interactive chat room at and listen to me at my live YouTube channel. YOU MUST B18+ TO PARTICIPATE.

EMPRESS CATHERINE: 800-601-6975
Skype ID: CatherineSpanks

For an erotic phone session with Empress Catherine, call 800-601-6975. (Must be 18+. Calls are $2.75 per minute, with a 10-minute minimum. Discreetly billed to your credit card.) http://ratemycall.com